Feeling Down About Being Rejected by a Devout Muslim Girl

Asked a girl out from the same office but different company. We've been talking for a year or so and have a lot of common interests and great conversations. I had no idea that devout muslims could not date or marry non-muslims. I guess I should have picked up the signs when she mentioned that she prays a few times a day but now I'm feeling super down in the dirt. She kept saying sorry and that she wants to get to know me but can't really do so because of her religion preventing her. Has anyone been in a similar situation?

评论 (16)

1年
mech60, 你怎么看?以下评论:

Very strict religious people may have their own set of rules, and that can be in every religion. I know conservative Catholics, Jews and Muslims and they would never date or marry outside of their own groups. There is nothing wrong with it if that is what they believe in.

好消息是,还有其他女孩,下一个女孩(不论宗教)可能对您说是。

  • 分析师1inIB- gen
1年

这无效。现在继续前进,避免试图取悦家人的痛苦,因为任何虔诚的宗教人士都会坚持自己。

1年
BigKahunaBanker, 你怎么看?以下评论:

Normally it´s the guy that blows up in the face of the girl, not the other way around, so I guess you got lucky here...

...事实将使您自由
  • 副1inCorpDev
1年

是的,这很糟糕,但您只是必须接受并继续前进。(由于缺乏更好的术语),非实践性的穆斯林妇女肯定在那里,尽管患病率可能会因您的确切位置而有所不同。我来自哪里,穆斯林的比例较高,我约会了一位非实践的穆斯林妇女,直到她回到信仰。肯定会很糟糕,但是您只能接受它实际上不是您作为一个人的反映,而只是您不是那个信仰的成员的结果。正如其他人所说,这发生在很多小组中,就是这样。保持头脑并前进。如果您需要一些希望他们在那里 - 我最终约会并结婚另一个非实践的穆斯林妇女:)

  • 1
最有帮助的
1年
迪克·斯蒂尔, 你怎么看?以下评论:

兄弟,我会继续前进。如果让您感觉好些,那么她拒绝并不是真正的“您”。我的家人非常虔诚,虽然我不再虔诚,而且他们永远不会接受一个非穆斯林女孩,但这只是他们心态(以及许多宗教人民心态)的一部分。在这种情况下,我有家人和家人的朋友。他们中的人选择了他们喜欢的女孩或男人,而是嫁给了一个穆斯林的人。

Of course there are many cases where it works out, but the people I know personally it didn't work out for them. You should also know it's notjustthe religious aspect of it. Sometimes people get cut off from their family and their entire community which causes a lot emotional and mental pain which they may not want to deal with it. This is true for other groups besides Muslims. I can't speak for the girl you like, but I definitely know people who chose to marry a Muslim girl/boy because they didn't want to get cut off.

了解更多

300+ video lessons across 6 modeling courses taught by elite practitioners at the top investment banks and private equity funds -- Excel Modeling -- Financial Statement Modeling -- M&A Modeling -- LBO Modeling -- DCF and Valuation Modeling -- ALL INCLUDED + 2 Huge Bonuses.

了解更多
1年
Ehmerica, 你怎么看?以下评论:

继续前进,否则让她转变为您的信仰。

我信任的只有两个来源,格伦·贝克(Glenn Beck)和唱林地生物。
  • 副1inPE -LBOS
1年

Having taken the virginity of a previously devout Muslim who probably thought we'd get married, and dated a couple more, I assure you it's not worth crying over the spilled goat's milk friend.

  • 1
  • 5
1年
Jamoldo, 你怎么看?以下评论:

OP-虔诚的穆斯林女孩绝对可以和你约会。但是她可能需要保证您会转换。对于她与家人的个人阵线等,您的头痛将使您头疼。

正如上面的其他人所说,对于你们俩来说,这将是一条漫长的艰难道路。所以可能不是你。可能只是情况,这在任何舞台(个人,专业等)中都是生活。下巴,还有其他人。

Good Luck

I used to do Asia-Pacific PE (kind of like FoF). Now I do something else but happy to try and answer questions on that stuff.
  • 2
  • 分析师2in关于- Comm
1年

感谢的人,我很欣赏回复和建议。I'm presuming you are Muslim as well? One of my best buddies is Muslim and I can't believe I never knew he only wants to marry someone from the same community. I am super oblivious and had no idea that it was very common for Muslims to only marry one another. Anyway, thank you again for the advice.

1年
谢赫·阿布·穆罕默德·米思里·阿尔金斯·卡迪布·达克姆, 你怎么看?以下评论:

穆斯林男人可以嫁给其他宗教,但穆斯林妇女不能结婚。那是法律。

أمنيتي الوحيدة: جنسي مثلي الجنس العربدة وقذف القضيب

我见证,除了安拉,没有神,我见证了穆罕默德是真主的使者。

1年
披萨, 你怎么看?以下评论:

You know if she's a naughty girl she may come around. I would continue being nice/flirty with her bc she may want some of your forbidden pipe

1年
谢赫·阿布·穆罕默德·米思里·阿尔金斯·卡迪布·达克姆, 你怎么看?以下评论:

那是圣地,愿真主从额头到脚趾sm你。

أمنيتي الوحيدة: جنسي مثلي الجنس العربدة وقذف القضيب

我见证,除了安拉,没有神,我见证了穆罕默德是真主的使者。

1年
FinanceAbc, 你怎么看?以下评论:

任何宗教中的虔诚人都不会在他们的宗教之外约会。如果您不虔诚,您将通过进一步追求这一点犯错。只需找到一些不虔诚的小鸡即可。

1年
谢赫·阿布·穆罕默德·米思里·阿尔金斯·卡迪布·达克姆, 你怎么看?以下评论:

您是Haram,与她约会,这是不允许的和令人讨厌的。convert依伊斯兰教,请参阅真主的光,直到那时您才能与她一起追求传统的求爱。

أمنيتي الوحيدة: جنسي مثلي الجنس العربدة وقذف القضيب

我见证,除了安拉,没有神,我见证了穆罕默德是真主的使者。

1年
披萨, 你怎么看?以下评论:

错误自动eT Vero Debitis est aut Maiores。Omnis Aut sed odio sit moletiae veritatis造成的位置。voluptatum laudantium cupidater dicta natus deserunt eos。quis eum nostrum totam ut sint中的explicabo。

Expedita mollitia est cupidatity deserunt repellat vero。odio recusandae saepe quia aspernatur造成的quidem molestiae。Reactuntur non Sed Libero等人。颞虫numquam eos possimus。Deserunt moletiae nisi doloribus molestias。Ut Soluta voluptatibus iure Sunt Enim Vero。

Eveniet quas possimus sit non voluptatibus et omnis non. Quasi ut laborum et sit totam voluptas. Autem qui atque ratione quae maxime est voluptatem.

开始讨论

职业发展机会

2月ruary 2023万博app网页版

  • Lazard Freres(+ +) 99.5%
  • Jefferies & Company(▽01) 99.1%
  • Lincoln International(▽01) 98.6%
  • 金融技术合作伙伴(▽01) 98.1%
  • 威廉·布莱尔(▲08) 97.7%

Overall Employee Satisfaction

2月ruary 2023万博app网页版

  • Canaccord Genuity(▲04) 99.5%
  • 威廉·布莱尔(▲04) 99.1%
  • Lincoln International(▲10) 98.6%
  • Stephens Inc(▲11) 98.1%
  • Jefferies & Company(▲06) 97.6%

Professional Growth Opportunities

2月ruary 2023万博app网页版

  • Lazard Freres(▲15) 99.5%
  • 金融技术合作伙伴(▲09) 99.1%
  • Lincoln International(= =) 98.6%
  • Jefferies & Company(▽03) 98.1%
  • 威廉·布莱尔(▲01) 97.7%

总平均补偿

2月ruary 2023万博app网页版

  • 导演/MD(6) $ 592
  • 副总裁(25) $ 422
  • 同事(138) $262
  • 3rd+ Year Analyst (9) $194
  • 第二年分析师(81) $171
  • 第一年分析师(260) $171
  • 实习/夏季助理(42) $166
  • 实习/夏季分析师(186) $ 91

排行榜See all