Curious about how some men date - A not so nice view - Let's talk
Hello everyone,
I realized after hanging out with a few older men in the finance world how they're living multiple lives with different wives.
one Chat I had with a largercrEportfolio owner (The 31 yr old son of a large family office) - Of over $2.1B in assets:
他告诉我他如何在各州和加拿大拥有2个家庭。他的第一任妻子与他和他的家人一起住在新泽西州。但是她是传统的7.5,但有着惊人的家庭和个人道德(她年轻4岁)。
在婚姻中几年后,这个家伙决定找到一个更年轻,更美丽的人,但是如果他的家人和第一任妻子发现了他的父亲,他的父亲会把他踢出家人,所以他不会让这种情况发生。这个家伙从字面上雇用了一名私人Pi&Matchmaker(花费超过5万美元),从伊拉克(The Iraq)(一个传统的9年级的英语专业)中找到了22岁的地球。然后,他将她和她的家人搬到温哥华,在那里他每月7天访问她。
每当他独自出境时,他还会与随机的妇女约会。当他想度过家庭时间或圣诞节时,他会旅行到他想要的任何妻子。
他之所以容易保持这种状态而不会筋疲力尽,这是因为他的第二名私人助理确保满足他所有的非商业关系和需求。他付出了远远超出常态的费用。
Also, the reason why he has wives is because he's a family man who wants to lock down women he adores.
None of the families and wives know of each other and the dude's wealth or family. He is a genuine dude who actually is kind and treats his wives and their family happy. The guy just loves women and can't get enough. He's a good friend of mine so I know him pretty well.
This got me thinking, does anyone else on here have this or wants this in their lives?
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我没有第二任妻子。两个5的价值与10相同。
Good point, We talked about this. Basically he said - "boredom" and his long winded answer was -
“ 10年将达到5年的5年。因此,随着年龄的增长,要让某人美丽的女孩是一个漂亮的女孩,一个好女孩每十年左右就年轻而美丽”
我同意,这里的一些窥视会发现它是狂野和不道德的,但是我很着迷,我听到它并亲眼目睹了它。
I guess with enough money, the world's your oyster to play all day in.
他的家人的业务很强大,收入约为9400万美元,净收入约为2800万美元。
我对业务TBH更感兴趣。
I want to thank you for sharing, most people are used to the conventional ways of relationships. For me having two wives and multiple girlfriends would just be to much to deal with. Eventually, all the women would meet each other....I rather have my girlfriends all know each other rather than the opposite.
兄弟,我认为您看过数十亿美元
如果您想与其他女性发生性关系,您不需要与第二任妻子建立平行的生活
如果您想和不同的女人有很多孩子
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"Nothing easier," Twain replied. "No man can serve two masters."
lol whatever rocks their boat. If the guy is happy then hey man thats good right?
Exactly
OP,我假设您从来不必与两个对您感兴趣的女人打交道,所以我会分享我的经验。
我一次随随便便约会了2-3位女性,每次都在疲惫不堪。以至于我最终只是与我更喜欢的那一个和不打交道的那个。这些是早期阶段的关系,它的维护非常低,也许一周约会,偶尔发短信,很少的工作。但是,仍然不值得我花时间或精力来兼顾这样的人。
即使我是单身,有多个文本转换sations going on with different women to set up dates is kind of a hassle and something I don't like dealing with. In order to have two actual wives, families, etc. you need to be a full-on sociopath.
我的观点是,唯一可以理想的方法是,如果您不必自己兼顾关系。如果您是处女,那么有两个想要您的女人听起来很糟糕。但是,一旦您做到了,这并不是那么特别或令人兴奋。
是的,我明白这一点,但基于原始线程,一个似乎是西方的,另一个似乎不是。因此,文化也在其中发挥作用。不同文化中的一些妻子不会经常在有需要的问题上打扰丈夫,因此这取决于。就我个人而言,我同意您对两名西方女性的评论,如果我是正确的话,您正在谈论西方女性。
文化在我的情况下没有发挥作用,因为这些是我认识数周 /几个月的女性,甚至我的女朋友都不是,我每周看到一次,就像我提到的那样。OP正在谈论一个与孩子结婚的人 - 承诺的差异很大。我的人际关系对关系的维护程度很低。除非您认为“东方”的妻子比您认识几个星期的女孩要低一些,否则我认为这不会有所作为。
Even two ultra low maintenance relationships were annoying for me. Juggling two different lives is just ridiculous. The amount of lying and secret-keeping required would be mentally exhausting. Maybe if you had two wives who knew about each other and were cool with it, fine
大声笑这是真的。尤其是在约会应用程序中,当我总是一次看到 /与4-6位女性交谈时。这对自我很棒,但是他妈的筋疲力尽:
长话短说,听起来像是指数性的戏剧性,没有回报
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有2个女人不是“不够的”。“不能得到足够的东西”是当您从未结婚并每周不断撞新女士时。有了这个家伙拥有的钱,他可以做到这一点。绝对没有理由花这么多金钱和精力来敲2只小鸡:其中之一是7.5,另外9个来自伊拉克。他可以敲打100只小鸡。
听起来这个孩子是一个被宠坏的小子
and no I don't want this and anyone I know who fucks around (infidelity, not promiscuity) I immediately kick out of my inner circle, that's a horrible influence you don't need to be around
I am 43 and have been with my wife for 18 years, 11 in marriage. She's a 9+ even after 2 kids. I've dated even hotter girls, including women you've heard of, but what sold me on her was that she was cool. Find someone you are attracted to but is also compatible with where you want to be. Will she be able to make you look good at a work event?
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