如何与您真正点击/喜欢拒绝您的女孩打交道？

Don't give a fuck. Don't chase after her. You need to seem more valuable than her. Find another girl and make sure she somehow knows about this. The moment a woman realizes you didn't give a fuck when they left, they will feel uncomfortable. You have to not give a fuck. Then wait a bit and see what happens. Chose whether to get with her again or leave her behind for the next one.

Did you have sex with her?

Jokes aside. You gave decent advice on my thread so will help you (or try to). Don't let it get to you. If she felt as strongly about it as you then she wouldn't have left. And credit where it's due, she didn't wait to leave -would have been worse six months in or two years in. It was a couple months and didn't work, move on.

人类s are complicated. Women are very complicated. She could have 100 different things going on in her life you don't know about. Maybe still involved in an old relationship, maybe has personal issues right now and doesn't want to date, family issues, attachment issues, literally hundreds of different things -- just move on, worry about what you can control.

你的鸡巴大，披萨吗？

You only have one option here - peace out with her and act like you don't care. If you're clingy it will just push her away. If she doesn't come running back then f-her / there are many more fish in the sea.

克服女人的最好方法是找到另一个女人。

不幸的是，您在上面得到的大多数建议是正确的...如果您想让她喜欢您，就无法追逐一个。。。这是男人可以做的最击退的行为。

The best thing a man can do in this situation is to appear fun loving and unaffected. Not in love, not hurt, not bitchy, not angry, not depressed.

You want this girl (and every girl) to see you as a cool fun guy that they would think to call if they wanted to have a fun girls night out (+ you) because you are just so much fun. Anything else is will repel all women that are attractive and have options (we are assuming this is the case).

What would a cool fun guy (who has 10 other cute / hot girls trying to hit you up and asking you on dates) do?

这个酷有趣的家伙会发短信：“不用担心……我们仍然很酷...我下周末仍在举行聚会，您当然仍然受到邀请，欢迎您带来朋友（男孩+女孩）。..也许我们可以和我的朋友乔什（Josh）一起设置您...您完全是他的类型”

the cool fun guy is not jealous or needy....he is the opposite

她曾经说过为什么吗？

If it's cause you work too much or you were rude to her or something like that then there is a chance you can promise to be better.

如果这是因为她只是不喜欢你，那就算了，那会很痛，但是找到一个新的人。

我很惊讶没有人告诉披萨……谁会告诉他？

我拒绝了一个人,然后他不给fuck, and somehow 8 months later I added him on instagram. Almost like not using my own will. Just happened

"You can lose $ chasing bitches but you can't lose bitches when you are chasing $" - Benjamin Franklin

世界上数以百万计和数十亿的女性 - 相信我，你会没事的

Focus on gym and getting swole

happens to the best of us, move on bro

I think you should tally up the cost of dinners/nights out and demand she pay for her allocation in full. Make sure she has paypal.

Watch the movie Swingers.

2 months is not long at all and not really even long enough to be considered a relationship. She was probably hanging out with different guys in the 'trial period' while you were taking your "relationship" status far more seriously than she was. I don't see how you could be this upset about someone you hardly even know. I wouldn't be surprised if the reason it didn't work is because she got repelled/scared by your "feel like we've known each other forever" vibes. Try to hold your cards closer to the chest next time…also stop trying so hard to find a girl--do other things you enjoy--and you will find the right person naturally, eventually.

Everyone here is acting like a wannabe "alpha male" (lmao wtf "act like you dont care", shut the fuck up, theres no formulaic method to date you code/stem/engineering bitch monkey), there's no formulaic method to dating despite what STEM virgins tell you (because they try applying a formulaic approach to life, hence why they are virgin losers).

操她的大脑反对她，然后将她幽灵。

Don't be simpin' let's get pimpin'

You should definitely move on and forget about this girl. If I were you, I would ignore her text, remove her from all my social media accounts and delete her contact info. Dating someone for two months is a long time. She should have had the courtesy to at least break up with you over the phone to give you an opportunity to better understand her rationale for breaking up or give a better explanation via text of why she thinks it wouldn't work. When I break up with guys, even if it's someone I dated for a week, I normally made sure the guy knew why I was breaking things off, unless I don't think it's important to them or I think they're an asshole. I normally do this out of guilt and consideration for the other person.

Felt like I was reading about myself there cause that just happened to me too. Everything clicked perfectly. I thought it was real but now it's like it never even happened. Moving on when you don't know what went wrong is brutal. I'm sorry to hear you're going through it. Glad to know it isn't just me who struggles with this. Remind yourself that you were doing great before her and focus on you and your goals. Goodluck.

This situation stings. But think about it this way, she lost someone who deeply cared about her and was truly interested in her / seemingly respected her, etc. That's not always easy to come by, especially in this day and age. So really, it's her loss. So you should move on and try someone to find someone who will appreciate you and what you have to offer. It's that simple. :)))))

One day you'll probably look back and laugh and think to yourself, how was I so distraught / crying over THAT??

it's just how it is. a lot of people don't value others and just use them and move on - both guys and girls.

don't get upset. getting older actually can make you even more desirable candidate as a guy, especially if you're getting richer and learning relationship skills. so you'll get better girls, don't worry.