How much comp would you give up to move to the city of your significant other? I'm currently a one hour flight (7 hour drive) away from her but thinking of switching to something closer to her, we've been dating for a year now, and I definitely see a future there. Comp will most likely always be less where she is located, and I'd move there eventually.
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Big mistake. Never sacrifice for a woman unless you are married.
At least fiance would be a better bet
我喜欢这是“最有趣的”评论，但事实。
One party has to give in. I wouldn't sacrifice for any man.
why not have them move closer to you
我们的两个家庭都住在那儿 /从那里 /从那里，这将使长期更有意义
It would provide more context if you could say the city you're going to and the difference in comp
LA / SF; Trying to keep it open-ended so didn't want to comment on comp specifics
哦，我以为你的意思是像一些兰多城，而不是la/sf。我不仅考虑生活成本。例如，我大学的所有朋友都将在纽约，所以我似乎无法离开其他任何东西，因为我绝对认识0人。即使有GF，如果我想离开全部of my friends. It would be a touch decision, and I can't say how I actually would act since I've not faced that. If you guys are serious, then maybe it's worth it for you. Otherwise, I'd say it's not.
I mean, you should look at the difference in cost of living and基准您的当前comp to see what the equivalent would be. That's the number that I would expect minimum to move out there.
COL doesn't vary across the two, so not really a concern
NGMI
I'd advise you not to look at the comp number necessarily but more at career opportunities, medium to long term advancement and how it will present on your resume.
例如，如果您移动20k，那么这没什么大不了的。但是，如果您少搬20k，并且您也不会具有向上的移动性，那么您会感到搞砸，并且会在几年后后悔。
Also your partner may be thankful, and say they appreciate what you've done etc but the reality is unless they work in the same industry they will not really understand and appreciate the sacrifice.
我是根据个人经验说的。不要急于耐心等待正确的角色 - 不是最初的补偿，而是为职业道路。您的未来自我将感谢您，在关系的背景下，您也会感到更加放松和舒适。
This is great advice, honestly all three are very good offers. Just trying to build a lifestyle around my career that I actually like.
Giving you your career for a girl you've got dated 1 year…. Why wouldn't she move to you? Must not be that serious.
我们两个家庭都从那里。那就是我最终想搬到的地方 - 只是时间问题。
fortunately for you SF to LA or vice versa the quality of job mobility wont be that hindered. Plenty of high quality gigs in both cities. Not a bad move.
如果您能够继续自己的职业生涯或在那里建立赔偿，那么为什么不呢？我不遵守您必须坚持X City取得成功的想法。如果您聪明并努力工作，您将在任何地方做到这一点。
I would likely be losing out on 50k in the short run and much much more in the long run
不要为Nyash兄弟而死。
但是认真地说，这完全取决于情况和您自己的目标的背景。有些人更面向家庭，会为家人牺牲职业目标。有些人以职业为导向，会为自己的职业生涯牺牲家庭。取决于您是哪一个。您也没有提供上下文。例如从NYCto the SF office isn't that deep but moving fromNYC俄亥俄州哥伦布可能会对您的职业轨迹产生重大影响。
It's an LA to SF kind of move but a little tricky because of the vertical I work in
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