Of course by no means a cut and dry answer especially without context, but currently live in the same city as my long term girlfriend and it's been great.
currently an An2 at a mid tierBB而且我在顶部有一个侧面BB但是在另一层城市（想想纽约/sf，反之亦然）。不知道该怎么做，因为我觉得自己在爱情和职业之间做出选择，因为我认为我们无法做长距离。
my thinking is maybe the marginal trade off in brand name isn't worth disrupting a good relationship, but also very much value starting my career at a top name as opposed to a mid-tier name.
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抱歉，需要更多上下文。她愿意和你一起搬家吗？您甚至想进行谈话吗？如果这甚至不是对话，那么您想进行的，您可能应该让可怜的女孩走。我认为这是您需要问问自己的问题，无论报价如何然后，我认为您需要考虑要从整个关系中摆脱什么。
Good point yes I should add that I would ask but she is unable/unwilling because of work commitments. Similar story to me - if we both optimize for career we'll be apart, if one of us makes a sacrifice we can be together
That's a tough one and I am sorry that is where you are at. I want to tell you that everything will be alright if you take the new job, but I am going through something similar. long story short it is never easy and at least if you focus on your career, you cannot go to wrong with that. AKA there is nothing else holding her to you either.
You gotta do what u feel is best for you but at the end of the day there are more importnant things in life than a job/money
做自己认为最适合自己的事情。我个人会通过问自己是否是“一个”来解决这种情况。如果我能在余生中看到自己和她在一起，那将是我的小心脏馅饼（目前在20年代后期）的又一个奇妙的2年，那么我个人会选择牺牲我与这个女人在一起的职业，但是请注意，我也会问自己，如果必要时，她将来是否愿意为我做同样的事情，以及答案是否可能是“是”，然后牺牲，如果“否”，请尝试长距离或继续前进。
是的，如果她不愿意为您做同样的事情，那么我会说继续前进。我的意思是，我看到她的观点，你们俩都有好工作并且是设置的，她可能就像为什么要摇摆船（尤其是在家人靠近的情况下）。
用凯文·奥利里（Kevin O'Leary）的话说，哪个更容易替换？您的女友还是职业？当他问这个问题时，GF比该特定人的职业机会更容易替换，但是在这种情况下，我不确定。如果我不得不猜测您要么在芝加哥/休斯顿做工业/O＆G或夏洛特BAML. If you don't want to be Pigeonholed into O&G, I'd say the switch is worth it. I'm not to sure about exits/career prospects in Chicago offices, but I'd assume you'd have the option to move to any of the ChicagoPEfirms and get looks at many纽约CPEfirms from any-tierBB，因此不确定职业转换是否值得。如果它是BAMLCharlotte, then the outcomes from纽约C/SFGS/MS can be a huge difference and it may be worth it.
Sounded like he lived in纽约C或者SF and was contemplating a move to the other.
是的^ (OP)
If you're willing to get rid of your gf to go from a mid-tierBBto a top-tierBBthen maybe you don't love her as much as you think you do
我不同意这一点，但老实说有一个区别
This is a great opportunity to start having a GF in every city.
LOL
Personally I would leave and work at the tier 1BB
You're only an analyst 2, which means you're in you early twenties. Which means your gf is likely also in her early twenties. For every 1 early twenties relationship that ends in a happy long-term marriage, about 19 end with breaking up. Seems pretty easy decision to me. Just check the stats man.
如果您认为自己可以长距离做，那么她显然不是您的优先事项。如果您实际上爱这个女孩，您会花时间与她在一起。
Stay where you are. Mid to topBBis not that big of a jump, and you will easily be able to lateral inIB.
Just lost a long term relationship because I'm moving to SF and she needed to stay in her city. Definitely a tough calculation but if neither of you are willing to move / stay for the other, there's not a lot you can do. If you're already at aBB, I don't know how much you'd get out of an upgrade. Not sure if you're planning to stay at the bank forever or jump toPE, but you should make sure the new bank provides either substantially betterPE长期职业的机会或更好的文化。
如果您有热gf，您将不一定总是获得顶部BB但是如果你有顶BByou can always get a Hot GF. One leaves open the door of optionality. But if you are mad in love then forget my advice.
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